Keep your New Years Resolution?
By Janis Roszler, RD, CDE, LD/N
Each holiday season, I prepare a column filled with different New Year’s
resolutions to consider. Most focus on exercise techniques, meal planning,
weight loss, and ways to build more supportive relationships. This time, I
decided to try to find the answer to an age old problem - why we fail to keep so
many of our New Year’s resolutions.
Chris McManus, a professor of psychology and medical education at University
College London, has some thoughts on this subject. Here is a brief summary of
what he shared in a recent article published in the British Medical Journal:
- Sometimes we don’t really want to change
Think about the goals you set as each New Year approaches. Perhaps you want
to walk more, smoke less or eat more veggies. Your reasons for doing so may be
good, but deep inside you may not really want to make that change at all. The
gap between what you hope to accomplish and what you actually wish to do can
prevent you from reaching your goal.
- Your resolution may be a fantasy
Many of us have dreams of how our lives can be. Your resolution may only be a
wish that you hope to do one day. It is nice to say that you are in favor of
changing a certain behavior, but you haven’t made any real commitment to making
that change.
To quote McManus, “Even the most solid of intentions can fail, as the fickle
finger of fate causes a slip ‘twixt cup and lip.” We all procrastinate
occasionally; some more than others. It is easy to put off a commitment if you
haven’t set a specific time goal. If you really want to keep this year’s
resolution, be sure to think about how you plan to fit it into your current
schedule. Set a real goal with a starting time.
The most interesting thing about all of this is that regardless of how many
times we have failed, most of us will make a new resolution the following year.
We are optimistic about our goals. If we can harness that positive attitude and
put it to real use, we can reach them.
At the end of Professor McManus’ editorial, he says that he doesn’t plan to
make a New Year’s resolution, but I would like to. I’m not certain what I’d like
to choose, but I do plan to make one. I also expect to keep it this year. It
will have something to do with food, of course, and I may even throw in a bit of
exercise for good measure. Whatever resolution I select, I will think about it
carefully and only start it once I have found a way to fit it into my hectic
schedule. A well-designed and appropriate New Year’s resolution can set you onto
a more healthful path. Pick your resolution, fit it into your life and go for
it!